How it works

Understand your situation, then do something about it.

Vantivelo is one connected system rather than a set of separate tools. It starts with a free assessment, produces a personalized analysis, turns that into a practical strategy, then helps you work that strategy — with coaching, Homework and a Progress record that carry forward as your situation changes.

  1. Free

    Complete the free Dating & Relationship Assessment

    About 6 minutes. Answer in writing or by voice, and add images, documents, audio, or video if context would help. The questions adapt to where you are — single, dating, in a situationship, partnered, married, or recovering from a breakup.

  2. Free

    Receive your Personalized Analysis

    Your responses are analyzed as a whole and written up as an honest read on your situation: what's happening, why it keeps happening, what's working in your favor, and what deserves attention first. Nothing is scored against a personality template.

  3. $39 one-time

    Unlock your Personalized Strategy Roadmap

    The plan itself: prioritized actions, milestones, and recommendations built from your assessment. One-time $39, permanent access. Complete a new assessment later and you can generate a new Strategy Roadmap at no additional Roadmap charge.

  4. From $29/month

    Keep going with an ongoing membership

    Membership is how you follow and adapt the plan: guided conversations with your Coach, personalized Homework, Progress tracking, and selective check-ins. Membership does not include the Strategy Roadmap — it builds on it.

  5. Included with membership

    Your Progress Journey keeps the record

    Coaching sessions, completed Homework, milestones and the moments that mattered are kept as a chronological record of your development — so your Coach and you are both working from what has actually happened, not memory.

  6. No additional Roadmap charge

    The work adapts as things change

    Coaching builds on the new context you bring as you continue. And when a new assessment shows a meaningful change — your relationship status, your goal, or a plan you've largely worked through — Vantivelo can recommend generating an updated Strategy Roadmap. Nothing is rewritten behind your back; you decide.

What carries forward

Each stage hands something to the next.

This is the part that's easy to miss from a feature list. These aren't separate products you buy and use independently — the output of one stage is the input of the next.

  • Your assessment answers and anything you chose to share become the basis of your personalized analysis.
  • Your analysis becomes the input your Strategy Roadmap is generated from.
  • Your Roadmap's priorities shape the Homework you're given and what your Coach works on with you.
  • Your Coach conversations, completed Homework and the context you provide feed your Progress Journey.
  • That accumulated picture is what your Coach reads before answering — and what a Roadmap-update recommendation is measured against.

Strategy vs. membership

The Strategy gives you the plan. Membership helps you live it.

They are separate on purpose. Your Strategy Roadmap is a one-time $39 purchase you keep forever, with no subscription required to access it. Membership is optional and exists for the part most people find hardest: following through, handling what comes up, and adjusting the plan when things change.

Accumulates

Each step feeds the next. Your assessment, analysis, Strategy Roadmap, conversations, uploads, Homework, and Progress build one working picture of your situation instead of separate sessions.

Distinguishes

With history behind it, guidance can separate an isolated event from a recurring pattern — and what someone says from what repeatedly happens. Progress is measured against your Roadmap milestones, not vague feelings.

Adapts

As your situation moves, the guidance, Homework, and follow-up move with it — informed by the patterns that have shown up over time.

Start from wherever you are today.

Vantivelo works from your experience, so you can begin without a partner, a date, or anyone else's cooperation — your own account of what's happening becomes the first layer of context everything else is built on. Vantivelo is educational guidance, not therapy, and it can't tell you what someone else is thinking or intending.